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friedkale:

thisgingersnapsback:

manymoodsofmichael:

These “Dudetips” have been posted around the UCLA campus for the past few weeks.  If you can, please tear them down. I can’t believe this is found acceptable here on my own campus.
This is sexist.  Just because I’m a dude, doesn’t mean I’m gonna go out raping everything in sight.  This is pretty much equivalent to saying “Muslim Tip #3:  If you’re going to take a plane to New York, remember not to crash it into some skyscrapers”  And if you think I’m just getting worked up over a single poster, check the click-through link to their facebook page.  There’s a lot more “dudetips” and they’re all along the lines of “remember not to break into a girl’s house and rape her”  A whole album full, online and around campus.  It’s part of their “anti-rape” campaign.  Because I’m sure these posters are super good at stopping rape.
It assumes that just because I’m part of a group that I am a guilty party.  Just like how Feminists try to change society’s tendency to prejudice women, I would like to point out that this is prejudice against men.  ”Girltip #3:  If you have a nice car, or a nice job, or a nice home, don’t forget to thank the man that gave it to you”  See?  Signs like this are simply prejudiced and go against everything Feminism should stand for.  This group is full of bullshit.

LOL LEAVE IT TO A DUDE TO FUCK UP A GOOD MESSAGE.
No one’s more full of bullshit here than you, fuckwit. I’ve already seen tons of amazing tear-downs of your “Waaaaah but what about men’s feeeeeeelings?!” tantrum, so I’m not going to waste my breath with it.
I’m just going to point and laugh at you.
(P.S. Nice Islamaphobia by the way, broski!)

No, I agree with the OP. It’s a sexist generalization and it’s wrong. This is like saying “Not all muslims are terrorists, but all terrorists are muslim” (Brian Kilmeade).
but with men.
“Not all men are rapists, but all rapists are men.”
Not only is it untrue, it’s generalizing, stereotyping, and insulting.

Oh.
Okay.
So 98% of rapists aren’t men.
Okay.
Fuck off.
Hurt feelings aren’t the motherfucking problem here.
Why the hell are you even following me, get the fuck out of here.

friedkale:

thisgingersnapsback:

manymoodsofmichael:

These “Dudetips” have been posted around the UCLA campus for the past few weeks.  If you can, please tear them down. I can’t believe this is found acceptable here on my own campus.

This is sexist.  Just because I’m a dude, doesn’t mean I’m gonna go out raping everything in sight.  This is pretty much equivalent to saying “Muslim Tip #3:  If you’re going to take a plane to New York, remember not to crash it into some skyscrapers”  And if you think I’m just getting worked up over a single poster, check the click-through link to their facebook page.  There’s a lot more “dudetips” and they’re all along the lines of “remember not to break into a girl’s house and rape her”  A whole album full, online and around campus.  It’s part of their “anti-rape” campaign.  Because I’m sure these posters are super good at stopping rape.

It assumes that just because I’m part of a group that I am a guilty party.  Just like how Feminists try to change society’s tendency to prejudice women, I would like to point out that this is prejudice against men.  ”Girltip #3:  If you have a nice car, or a nice job, or a nice home, don’t forget to thank the man that gave it to you”  See?  Signs like this are simply prejudiced and go against everything Feminism should stand for.  This group is full of bullshit.

LOL LEAVE IT TO A DUDE TO FUCK UP A GOOD MESSAGE.

No one’s more full of bullshit here than you, fuckwit. I’ve already seen tons of amazing tear-downs of your “Waaaaah but what about men’s feeeeeeelings?!” tantrum, so I’m not going to waste my breath with it.

I’m just going to point and laugh at you.

(P.S. Nice Islamaphobia by the way, broski!)

No, I agree with the OP. It’s a sexist generalization and it’s wrong. This is like saying “Not all muslims are terrorists, but all terrorists are muslim” (Brian Kilmeade).

but with men.

“Not all men are rapists, but all rapists are men.”

Not only is it untrue, it’s generalizing, stereotyping, and insulting.

Oh.

Okay.

So 98% of rapists aren’t men.

Okay.

Fuck off.

Hurt feelings aren’t the motherfucking problem here.

Why the hell are you even following me, get the fuck out of here.

manymoodsofmichael:

These “Dudetips” have been posted around the UCLA campus for the past few weeks.  If you can, please tear them down. I can’t believe this is found acceptable here on my own campus.
This is sexist.  Just because I’m a dude, doesn’t mean I’m gonna go out raping everything in sight.  This is pretty much equivalent to saying “Muslim Tip #3:  If you’re going to take a plane to New York, remember not to crash it into some skyscrapers”  And if you think I’m just getting worked up over a single poster, check the click-through link to their facebook page.  There’s a lot more “dudetips” and they’re all along the lines of “remember not to break into a girl’s house and rape her”  A whole album full, online and around campus.  It’s part of their “anti-rape” campaign.  Because I’m sure these posters are super good at stopping rape.
It assumes that just because I’m part of a group that I am a guilty party.  Just like how Feminists try to change society’s tendency to prejudice women, I would like to point out that this is prejudice against men.  ”Girltip #3:  If you have a nice car, or a nice job, or a nice home, don’t forget to thank the man that gave it to you”  See?  Signs like this are simply prejudiced and go against everything Feminism should stand for.  This group is full of bullshit.

LOL LEAVE IT TO A DUDE TO FUCK UP A GOOD MESSAGE.
No one’s more full of bullshit here than you, fuckwit. I’ve already seen tons of amazing tear-downs of your “Waaaaah but what about men’s feeeeeeelings?!” tantrum, so I’m not going to waste my breath with it.
I’m just going to point and laugh at you.
(P.S. Nice Islamaphobia by the way, broski!)

manymoodsofmichael:

These “Dudetips” have been posted around the UCLA campus for the past few weeks.  If you can, please tear them down. I can’t believe this is found acceptable here on my own campus.

This is sexist.  Just because I’m a dude, doesn’t mean I’m gonna go out raping everything in sight.  This is pretty much equivalent to saying “Muslim Tip #3:  If you’re going to take a plane to New York, remember not to crash it into some skyscrapers”  And if you think I’m just getting worked up over a single poster, check the click-through link to their facebook page.  There’s a lot more “dudetips” and they’re all along the lines of “remember not to break into a girl’s house and rape her”  A whole album full, online and around campus.  It’s part of their “anti-rape” campaign.  Because I’m sure these posters are super good at stopping rape.

It assumes that just because I’m part of a group that I am a guilty party.  Just like how Feminists try to change society’s tendency to prejudice women, I would like to point out that this is prejudice against men.  ”Girltip #3:  If you have a nice car, or a nice job, or a nice home, don’t forget to thank the man that gave it to you”  See?  Signs like this are simply prejudiced and go against everything Feminism should stand for.  This group is full of bullshit.

LOL LEAVE IT TO A DUDE TO FUCK UP A GOOD MESSAGE.

No one’s more full of bullshit here than you, fuckwit. I’ve already seen tons of amazing tear-downs of your “Waaaaah but what about men’s feeeeeeelings?!” tantrum, so I’m not going to waste my breath with it.

I’m just going to point and laugh at you.

(P.S. Nice Islamaphobia by the way, broski!)

sailorv:

A few days ago, my sister received this response to a post she made about Sailor Moon on International Woman’s Day. I went back and forth as to whether or not to respond to it, but given that it’s Naoko Takeuchi’s birthday today (thanks Cassie for the heads-up) I felt it would be an opportune time to address the misconception that Sailor Moon objectifies women.
Firstly, the women of Sailor Moon are women of color (if Japanese women are considered such). There are several articles written on the topic of why anime characters are NOT made to look white; here’s one. Not really much more to say on the subject, since this particular Kotaku article says it all. White people have a habit of projecting themselves onto everything, but that doesn’t make everyone who is pale-skinned white.

Secondly, Sailor Moon is centered around a shameless food lover. While it’s true that the Sailor Senshi are impossibly proportioned, it doesn’t harp on the message of looking perfectly thin. While I sometimes think that the impossibility of achieving anime bodies is problematic for both women and men’s esteem, I think that it isn’t quite as severe as the image manipulation of real life bodies, because no one expects to actually look like an anime character. In a country that is weight obsessed (similarly to America) Sailor Moon is a refreshing voice (though admittedly not perfect) that says it’s okay to indulge.
As for the male gaze, it is patently incorrect to say that it was created (and that the clothes were designed) for the purpose of appealing to men. To label Sailor Moon “school girl fetishism” simply because the girls wear sailor fukus (uniforms) is default sexualization. Sailor Moon was, in fact, created for young women who wear sailor uniforms! The “sailor uniform” as the Senshi fuku is the vehicle by which young girls can inject themselves into the storyline. It was not created for men, and whether or not men masturbate to it (we all know they do) is irrelevant to the integrity of the story.

Which brings me to another point - are sexy women by default objectified, even if they are drawn/fantasized/created by other women? The only answer I have to this question is that women are objectified when their (fictional or real women) ownership over their sexuality is relinquished. Sadly there is no easy way to define when women own or don’t own their sexuality, and some cases are more obvious than others. That being said, I think that Sailor Moon’s sexiness is pretty clearly self-possessed. Her personal growth throughout the series, her steadfastness in her beliefs, and her minimal reliance on Tuxedo Mask (whom she often saves!!!) show that she isn’t easily used, and I think that’s the message that resonates the most with women. It also makes her sexiness that much more admirable - she rocks a short skirt not only because she’s fighting crime, but because she wants to. Her outfit fulfills a female fantasy equally as a male one.
But beyond the outfits, Sailor Moon doesn’t much appeal to the “male gaze.” I recently stumbled upon a comic about the false equivalence fallacy of “male objectification”, and upon reading it, the FIRST example I thought of was Tuxedo Mask. I’m not saying that Tuxedo Mask is an example of male objectification, but he certainly doesn’t fulfill male fantasies. Created for the male gaze? I can’t really see how.
It’s true that my love for Sailor Moon is very much nostalgic, but the only thing I find shameful about it is how the sometimes-bad dialogue still makes me cry. Sailor Moon is completely justifiably feminist by my own definition, and I’ve found that most accusations of its sexism and fetishism still play into antiquated and close-minded ideas of feminism.

The funniest part about this is the bullshit “It teaches that indulgence is okay!”
Yeah.
And
she manages to eat and eat and eat and eat
and stay thin.
That’s like
that’s the problem.
People don’t care about what you eat, really. They care about what your body looks like. 
Just, no.
I also don’t understand making the character’s ~desires~ at all important. They didn’t write the show, the show wrote them. It isn’t Sailor Moon’s idea to wear a short skirt, it’s the writer’s and artist’s. Their outfits for crime fighting are as absurd as Power Girl’s, minus the gigantic hole in the shirt, but add in some risque almost-naked transformation scenes.
I mean
I know a shit ton of guys who have openly admitted that they watched Sailor Moon solely because of the transformation scenes.

 It was not created for men, and whether or not men masturbate to it (we all know they do) is irrelevant to the integrity of the story.

What. Okay so, “we all” know that men masturbate to it—I wonder why? It’s irrelevant to the integrity of the story, sure, but it’s not irrelevant to the discussion of how the show portrays the Scouts.
I’m not here to rag on Sailor Moon, but to credit is as some awesome feminist-empowered show… I absolutely do not agree. I mean, it has absoLUTELY got some great messages in it, but there are gigantic holes to be blown in a lot of this argument. :\

sailorv:

A few days ago, my sister received this response to a post she made about Sailor Moon on International Woman’s Day. I went back and forth as to whether or not to respond to it, but given that it’s Naoko Takeuchi’s birthday today (thanks Cassie for the heads-up) I felt it would be an opportune time to address the misconception that Sailor Moon objectifies women.

Firstly, the women of Sailor Moon are women of color (if Japanese women are considered such). There are several articles written on the topic of why anime characters are NOT made to look white; here’s one. Not really much more to say on the subject, since this particular Kotaku article says it all. White people have a habit of projecting themselves onto everything, but that doesn’t make everyone who is pale-skinned white.

Secondly, Sailor Moon is centered around a shameless food lover. While it’s true that the Sailor Senshi are impossibly proportioned, it doesn’t harp on the message of looking perfectly thin. While I sometimes think that the impossibility of achieving anime bodies is problematic for both women and men’s esteem, I think that it isn’t quite as severe as the image manipulation of real life bodies, because no one expects to actually look like an anime character. In a country that is weight obsessed (similarly to America) Sailor Moon is a refreshing voice (though admittedly not perfect) that says it’s okay to indulge.

As for the male gaze, it is patently incorrect to say that it was created (and that the clothes were designed) for the purpose of appealing to men. To label Sailor Moon “school girl fetishism” simply because the girls wear sailor fukus (uniforms) is default sexualization. Sailor Moon was, in fact, created for young women who wear sailor uniforms! The “sailor uniform” as the Senshi fuku is the vehicle by which young girls can inject themselves into the storyline. It was not created for men, and whether or not men masturbate to it (we all know they do) is irrelevant to the integrity of the story.

Which brings me to another point - are sexy women by default objectified, even if they are drawn/fantasized/created by other women? The only answer I have to this question is that women are objectified when their (fictional or real women) ownership over their sexuality is relinquished. Sadly there is no easy way to define when women own or don’t own their sexuality, and some cases are more obvious than others. That being said, I think that Sailor Moon’s sexiness is pretty clearly self-possessed. Her personal growth throughout the series, her steadfastness in her beliefs, and her minimal reliance on Tuxedo Mask (whom she often saves!!!) show that she isn’t easily used, and I think that’s the message that resonates the most with women. It also makes her sexiness that much more admirable - she rocks a short skirt not only because she’s fighting crime, but because she wants to. Her outfit fulfills a female fantasy equally as a male one.

But beyond the outfits, Sailor Moon doesn’t much appeal to the “male gaze.” I recently stumbled upon a comic about the false equivalence fallacy of “male objectification”, and upon reading it, the FIRST example I thought of was Tuxedo Mask. I’m not saying that Tuxedo Mask is an example of male objectification, but he certainly doesn’t fulfill male fantasies. Created for the male gaze? I can’t really see how.

It’s true that my love for Sailor Moon is very much nostalgic, but the only thing I find shameful about it is how the sometimes-bad dialogue still makes me cry. Sailor Moon is completely justifiably feminist by my own definition, and I’ve found that most accusations of its sexism and fetishism still play into antiquated and close-minded ideas of feminism.

The funniest part about this is the bullshit “It teaches that indulgence is okay!”

Yeah.

And

she manages to eat and eat and eat and eat

and stay thin.

That’s like

that’s the problem.

People don’t care about what you eat, really. They care about what your body looks like. 

Just, no.

I also don’t understand making the character’s ~desires~ at all important. They didn’t write the show, the show wrote them. It isn’t Sailor Moon’s idea to wear a short skirt, it’s the writer’s and artist’s. Their outfits for crime fighting are as absurd as Power Girl’s, minus the gigantic hole in the shirt, but add in some risque almost-naked transformation scenes.

I mean

I know a shit ton of guys who have openly admitted that they watched Sailor Moon solely because of the transformation scenes.

 It was not created for men, and whether or not men masturbate to it (we all know they do) is irrelevant to the integrity of the story.

What. Okay so, “we all” know that men masturbate to it—I wonder why? It’s irrelevant to the integrity of the story, sure, but it’s not irrelevant to the discussion of how the show portrays the Scouts.

I’m not here to rag on Sailor Moon, but to credit is as some awesome feminist-empowered show… I absolutely do not agree. I mean, it has absoLUTELY got some great messages in it, but there are gigantic holes to be blown in a lot of this argument. :\

(via perfectlyqueer)

Have some self-respect: don’t be a slut.

jensenjaundice:

but it’s because I respect myself that I learn how to do these things

AHHHHAHAHAHAHA 

JENSEN

I AM DYING OF LAUGHTER.

(Source: ricksantorum-2012)

Last year, 3,191 military sexual assaults were reported and the Pentagon estimates the actual number was about 19,000.

They’re sweeping the problem under the rug may be by labeling the survivors as “crazy” and booting them from military.

Servicewomen come forward after being assaulted, their complaints are ignored, and then they’re diagnosed with a personality disorder and discharged.

From 2001 to 2010, the military discharged more than 31,000 service members because of personality disorder–and a disproportionate number of them were women.

A personality disorder is a long-standing mental health problem but none of the women profiled in the article had such a history.

And since the military considers a personality disorder to be a pre-existing condition, victims don’t get veterans benefits for it as they would if it were a “service-related disability.” They also lose their education benefits under the GI Bill. So basically, women who served in the military, were assaulted by their fellow soldiers, betrayed again by a military hierarchy that ignored the crime, are now being told that they’re out of a job and can’t even get help for the trauma they’ve suffered because they were crazy all along.

(Source: msandrogynous, via seriouslyamerica)

nounbeast:

thisgingersnapsback:

Okay some of these things are starting to kind of rub me the wrong way.

We knew it was only inevitable until men started making it about themselves.

Theeeeere we go.

nounbeast:

thisgingersnapsback:

Okay some of these things are starting to kind of rub me the wrong way.

We knew it was only inevitable until men started making it about themselves.

Theeeeere we go.

(Source: whoneedsfeminism)

Okay some of these things are starting to kind of rub me the wrong way.

Okay some of these things are starting to kind of rub me the wrong way.

(Source: whoneedsfeminism)

"I have really traditional values. Feminism has destroyed these values in society. Women do not behave like women anymore. They behave like children. You can’t act like a child and expect to get the same respect that a man gets. I believe men should be in charge and they should take back the power they’ve given to women."

jojobear11 (via thisgingersnapsback)

In case anyone missed this douchefuckery earlier!